Why I Started This Blog: Making Dating Less Scary
I started this blog because, let’s be real, dating can feel like uncharted territory, especially when you throw in cultural differences and distance. My goal? To make it less intimidating and way more rewarding for you. When I’m not writing, I’m probably exploring a new country, learning a new language, or chatting with someone about their love story. Relationships are what make us human, and I’m here to help you embrace the wild, beautiful ride that comes with them.
What Makes This Blog Your Best Wingman?
If you’ve ever wondered what dating is like in different corners of the world, you’re in the right place. This blog is your go-to guide for all things international dating. You’ll find:




This isn’t just a blog; it’s a toolbox packed with everything you need to start, nurture, and thrive in a relationship with someone from a different culture.
My Vision for This Blog
Living in San Francisco, a city rich in diversity, I’ve always been intrigued by how relationships bridge cultural gaps. That curiosity led me to create a space where I could share insights about international dating and building connections with people from around the globe.
At Ask Jay Walker, my mission is to simplify the complexities of cross-cultural relationships. It’s not just about finding love abroad—it’s about understanding the unique challenges, celebrating the joys, and embracing the journey with confidence.
Through my blog, I aim to provide practical advice, cultural insights, and inspiring stories to help readers navigate the world of relationships and dating. For me, writing here is more than sharing knowledge—it’s about fostering hope and helping people create meaningful relationships that transcend borders.

My Journey
Why You Can Trust Me
Let me tell you something—nothing makes me happier than hearing how I’ve helped someone find love or build a stronger relationship. Over the years, I’ve:
- Guided readers through online dating platforms to meet their perfect matches.
- Helped couples bridge cultural gaps, ensuring they understand and celebrate each other’s differences.
- Supported people in avoiding scams and making smart, safe choices in the world of international dating.
Why trust me? Because I’ve been there myself. I’ve made the mistakes, learned the lessons, and come out the other side. I don’t sugarcoat things or throw out generic advice. What I share here is based on real experience, real people, and real results.